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Hello, October: Let the Pink Mean Something | Breast Cancer Awareness Month šš
October wears another color besides orange. š This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, weāre honoring the fighters, celebrating survivors, remembering those weāve lost, and reminding ourselves that awareness is more than a ribbon. Let the pink mean something.
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11 hours ago4 min read
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I Didnāt Fix My Life Today ā And Thatās Kind of the Point
Some days arenāt about breakthroughs, productivity, or getting your whole life together. Sometimes an ordinary, messy day is enoughāand it still counts. š
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2 days ago4 min read
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When Exactly Are We Supposed to Start Living?
When survival takes most of your time, money and energy, when exactly are you supposed to start living? A real look at financial stress, guilt, freedom and wanting enough breathing room to simply enjoy your life.
terahorner
Sep 97 min read
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Apparently, Iām the Household Search Engine
Whereās the remote? Whatās the Wi-Fi password? What bills are due? Somehow one person becomes the keeper of everythingāand being the household search engine is a whole mental load of its own. š
terahorner
Sep 78 min read
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Apparently, Being Sick Wasnāt Enough to Get Me Out of Feeling Behind
Iām sick. I feel like crap. And somehow my brain still thinks I should be keeping up. What happens when resting feels like falling behindāand ādoing enoughā never seems to feel like enough?
terahorner
Sep 57 min read
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My Body Is Sitting Down. My Brain Is Still Doing Laps.
My body can be sitting perfectly still while my brain runs through everything I need to remember, fix, check, and do. When your mind never really clocks out, what does rest actually look like?
terahorner
Aug 318 min read
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I Don't Know How to Ask for Help
Sometimes I don't need you to fix me. I don't need advice, answers, or an explanation. I just need you to sit beside me and say, āI'm here.ā I don't know how to ask for help. There. I said it. And I don't mean I occasionally struggle with it. I mean asking someone for help can send my brain into a full-blown panic before I've even finished the sentence. Money. Cleaning. Bills. Taking care of the dogs. Emotions. Life. It doesn't really matter what I need help with. My first in
terahorner
Aug 247 min read
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The Strong One Gets Tired Too
I learned how to be the strong one when I was ten years old. But somewhere between surviving childhood and carrying everything into adulthood, I learned something else: even the strong one gets tired too.
terahorner
Aug 225 min read
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Iām Not Okay All the Time ā And Iām Done Pretending I Am
Iāve gotten really good at saying āIām fineā when Iām anything but. This is about dropping the act, embracing the messy parts, and creating a place where none of us have to pretend we have it all together.
terahorner
Aug 202 min read
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